Job Interview
Questions
How to Lie at the Interview and
Get Away With It!
Are There
Telltale Signs?
Some lies are fairly easy to detect. At the height of the war
in Iraq, for example, a TV news account showed an Iraqi
spokesman proclaiming that there were “no American infidels in
the city of Baghdad” just as U.S. tanks drove past
him.
However without such bold physical evidence,
it’s hard for your interviewer to spot many lies. In
fact, many experts say it can be a delusion for an
interviewer to think lying can be detected in a person’s
mannerisms. Fidgeting, stuttering or avoiding eye contact
could simply be symptoms of nervousness about the
interview rather than indicators of intent to deceive.
Remember
this when you go in for your interview.
Practiced liars often show no such signs.
“Really good liars often behave in the opposite way and
appear unnaturally calm and make fewer gestures with
their body,” says Daniel R. Fisher, a psychologist who
heads the assessment practice for Worklab Consulting LLC,
a New York-based management-consulting firm. “People who
are lying often slow down to think about their answers,
using fewer gestures and maintaining eye contact as they
concentrate on putting together a plausible
falsehood.”
Some interviewees tell lies that they have
ingrained in their life story—identities and legends of
their own creation—and thus aren’t fabricating on the
spot, says Rosen. “They put it on their resume and talk
about it and tell their friends about it, and it becomes
part of their personality, because they’ve told it so
often,” he says. “To them, it’s second nature—they’re not
sitting there making it up.” The point of this is
that you MUST make sure you rehearse and rehearse your
story just as if an actor memorizes their lines until it
becomes second nature.
Studies by Paul
Ekman, a psychology professor in the Department of Psychiatry
at the University of California Medical School in San
Francisco, have repeatedly shown that people are poor intuitive
judges of truth and deception. “Most people cannot tell from
demeanor whether someone is lying or telling the truth—but most
people think they can,” say Ekman, author of 13 books,
including Telling Lies (W.W. Norton, 2001). Over the
years Ekman has tested about 6,000 people—among them college
students, police officers, judges, lawyers, psychiatrists, and
agents of the FBI, the CIA and the Drug Enforcement
Administration—to determine if they can tell if someone is
lying. He has found, he says, that “95 percent of them are
close to chance—they’d do just as well flipping a
coin.” Knowing
this puts you in the power position when you go in for an
interview.
Especially if you think you’re a bad liar. Guess what? As long as your rehearsed
your story and know it inside and out you’re going to easily
fool your interviewer(s).
If a prospective employer is worried that you
didn't actually earn the degree you say you did they will
ask you probing questions. In order to verify someone
actually attended a particular school, they will most
likely ask you questions that only someone who went to
the school would know."
If they’re unsure you actually possess the
skills and credentials reflected in your resume, they
will ask you questions relating to those skills. If the
job requires technical knowledge, such as accounting or
computer skills, be sure that you CAN answer those
questions no matter how technical or detailed they might
be.
The technical part of the interview is so
important for you to ace. If you can’t answer technical
questions, then you're done. Be prepared to answer
questions such as how you would handle a particular
problem, or questions regarding particular projects you
worked on in the past can help establish if you’re right
for the job.
HR people are trained to look for lies,
exaggerations and inconsistencies. So rehearse as many
times as necessary before your interview so your story is
airtight
Below is
what HR people are told to look for during an interview as
signs that you’re lying. The information below is the
standard information that HR people are
taught.
By themselves, each of these behaviors can just
be signs of stress, or even a person's natural
mannerisms. One can occur by chance, but when two or more
of these behaviors suddenly appear at a moment when lying
could be expedient. For example, when you ask a salesman
how reliable that used car is, it suggests he's
lying.
Here's the top eight list of suspicious
behaviors:
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A change in the voices pitch.
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A change in the rate of speech.
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A sudden increase in the number of "ums" and
"ahs."
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A change in eye contact. Normally, one makes
eye contact one-quarter to one-half of the time. If
suddenly, at the convenient moment to lie, he's
staring at you or looking away, beware.
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Turning his body away from you, even if just
slightly.
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Suddenly being able to see the white on the
top and bottom of a person's eyes, not just the
sides.
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A hand reaching, even if momentarily, to
cover part of the face, especially the
mouth.
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Nervous movement of feet or
legs.
Of course, in order to notice a change, you need
a baseline. So you must first watch the person when
talking about innocuous issues.
A Mixed Signal
Also look for mixed signals. When someone's
telling the truth, her words, her face and her body
language are all congruent. For example, if a person is
honestly saying that she likes you, her face is usually
relaxed, offering a gentle smile and warm eyes. Her body
is calm and open. But when she's lying, something is
usually inconsistent. In the most obvious case, she may
be saying she likes you, but she's not smiling. She may
even have a clenched fist. Better liars can muster a
smile, but it doesn't look natural. Even better liars can
put on a convincing smile, but their eyes aren't smiling.
Still better liars can control their entire face, but
their bodies seem closed or cold. Look for mismatches
between words and body language.
When you've gotten a signal -- a change in body
language or a mixed signal that the person may be lying
-- ask for more information about the same topic. Are
those same lying signs apparent? That can confirm your
suspicion.
Of course, there's no foolproof way to detect
lying. Some people are terrific at covering themselves
up, especially if they are naturally emotionally flat or
have practiced their lying skills over many years --
certain political leaders come to mind. But if you look
for behavior changes and mixed signals at lying-expedient
moments, you will improve your BS detector.
Make sure you’re aware of how you carry yourself
and what your body language conveys.
See how sneaky
Corporate America can be when it comes to the hiring process?
Yes they have no problem letting white collar criminals at
World Com, Enron and others rob you of your retirement and
pension!
Employment
History
Checking references can help fill in any gaps or date
discrepancies found in your employment history. Even though
many employers are fearful of giving out too much information,
most will verify the dates you worked for
them.
Prospective employers think that by doing a good
job of checking references, they think that they’ll be
able to verify if you’re telling the truth about your
employment history..
Prospective employers thing that it’s a good
idea to have more than one person interview a candidate.
Afterwards, everyone who interviewed you will get
together and compare notes to find inconsistencies. For
this reason make sure you have your story down
perfectly.
Any misstep here and you’re done!
The Job
Application
Many times, a prospective employer will have you
provide a resume AND fill out a job application in order
to try to trip you up. Usually the application will
contain a statement that points out the existence of any
untruthful information may lead to your termination if
discovered. Make absolutely sure that your resume and
application synch up perfectly.
Remember, in today's economic climate, hiring
and retaining the best employees is a top priority.
Companies take this process very, very
seriously.
·
Be prepared to provide several references. They
will use this to check on your employment
history.
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They will contact all previous employers that
you put down so make sure you’re airtight.
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Be prepared to be interviewed by more then one
person
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Be prepared to answer questions that directly
relate to the job.
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Be prepared to complete a job application, and
make sure you understand that giving false information on
the application is grounds for termination.
Chances are, your next resume submission will be
checked and cross-checked via your Social Security record
(which gives the exact dates that employee contributions
begin and end at every single company you’ve ever worked
for). Your police record (or lack of one) and a complete
rundown of your credit history (including monthly
payments) will be reviewed. There will also be a thorough
check into your references (making sure the people you
use as references actually have the job titles they
claim) and an in-depth look at your educational
background.
Before starting your job search, you may want to
stop off at www.qspace.com and instantly
check your credit rating ($34.95) at all three of the
major agencies. Viewing your results before your
potential employer does may be worth your time and
money.
What if your background checks out just fine?
Have you overcome all of the hiring hurdles? Don’t get
too excited yet. Many companies are delving even further
these days. ReviewNet (www.reviewnet.net) is a company
thriving by testing applicants virtually (by computer) to
detect above average or less than virtual
skills.
The company’s tests give applicants the ability
to take the Internet-based quiz from a computer at home
or at the potential employer’s site. The test is timed,
and an evaluation lets the person giving the test know
how much time it took the test taker to complete the
multiple answer quiz. Then ReviewNet gives the company
that is administering the test all answers that are
correct or nearly correct. Even a non technical person
has the ability to hire qualified applicants or
disqualify those who don’t make the grade. ReviewNet also
has a phone service where a qualified tester (who is a
specialist in that particular technology) will call an
applicant and give the oral part of the test.
This means
that you’d BETTER have your information fresh in your
mind and make sure your have some good reference books
and cheat sheets near you that detail key terms, phrases,
definitions and anything else that may assist you in
getting through the process.
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